what the heck happened to april??

so i blink, and it's may.  jeesh.  how about that...

mike and i spent pretty much the whole day shopping and eating today.  despite the fact that it rained pretty much all day, we poked around the city looking for clever solutions for displaying bread puddings, decided on colors [since we know my sister is keeping the dress], ate, had coffees...  it was cool.  i'm not sure why, but i have really been a big grump lately.  maybe because of the excruciating pain i've been in lately?  maybe because my job sort of makes this foot pain worse?  maybe because we're in retrograde?  whatever the reason, i don't even like myself right now, so i can't imagine how badly mike wants to lock me in the basement until i stop being a terd.  i don't want to be a terd, but i'm just terribly grumpy and distant and things like this lately, and i'm not even sure why, let alone how to process this and move on.  it's frustrating.  sorry, i digress...  i felt this was important to mention, however, because there was some grumpy between mike and i between the foods and coffees and wedding stuffs.  moving on.

we also decided officially today that we are going to be honeymooning in...  [drumroll, please]
sunny san francisco!  i am horribly excited about this.  i have always wanted to go + neither of us have been there + we have some close friends who used to live in the mission, so they can give us the best 'must do' list of all time [hi jacob + jen!] + we have other friends who have visited/stayed for internships/etc.  the best part?  we know no one who actually lives there anymore*.  totally on our own.  austin was also a solid contender, for sure, but since i have about 30 friends who live there, i figured it would be best to wait and just 'vacation' there, rather than spending our honeymoon with our favorite austinites.  [sorry, austin loved ones - we'll be there soon though, and i still love you!]  so, september 23, we will board a plane and head out to san fran.  so terribly exciting!  if you have any suggestions aside from the massive list i'm going to get from jennifer, please leave me a comment - i welcome any and all ideas!

* i stand corrected, though krista *technically* lives in oakland...  see you in the fall, herbe!